How can people do that!

Ya know, there are many of us, who choose to not use yahoo tube groups for their graphics to create with, since 90% of what is being passed is taking money away from the person who created them, but those of us who do pay to join sites. Some sites offering different types of tubes. There is Drawn and painted/shaded by hand and upload to online for use, Tole, Painted, Pixels in forms of linearts and shaded graphics, and poser graphics. Some sites offering other things such as signature tags, incredimail goodies, screensavers, wallpapers, and so forth. You can either purchase them outright or join a membership area. So forth and so on!

Sometimes things happen in real life, or to servers and the sites are down for issues and not accessible for months at a time. Now if your just visiting the site to just purchase items, well the owner is missing out on the ability to sell and your missing out on the ability to purchase. No hard feelings right its a 50/50! But what about if your in a membership portion of the site? They go down for three months, your told its a server issue and they are working on it. You paid not for lifetime of the site but for the access for 3, 6 or 12 months. So the site comes up online and everything runs smoothly, 99% of sites extend membership time to make up for the loss, I mean its the proper thing to do for all involved. Personally I would of moved my site after a week of being down, rather than wait 3 months, even if a temporary thing while the old server worked out kinks so that my members were not hanging out to dry thus to speak. I know of gals who had server issues and members were really pissy and rude about it. Even after that kind of behavior the site owner extended time for all involved, even for longer period of time than what the site was down.

So its comes to a shock to a site that I chose to not renew with? I was with this site for over three years, paid faithfully never moaned, bitched or complained, but when I was told well sorry thats how it goes?? Do you really think I am going to renew? AHHHHH NA!

I also do not understand, I realize real life happens, we get sick, family gets sick, maybe we lose a loved one. But your told I’m sorry I can not handle being online so your membership is on hold or others generously donated time and talent to help you out. Thats awesome to see such kindness, but yet they are online daily, chatting, having fun in forums, or at sites like pogo or whuddleworld, and happy. But when it comes to honoring memberships to a site they are too sad, upset and depressed? So hens start to cackle. They do not understand. How can people do that? Why can they just be up front and honest. Maybe its just something they need to put on a back burner for a while. That is totally understandable. At one point and time people do burn out, we are not machines. But don’t just keep making excuses and feed those cackling hens!! So many girls have had it with the hens, closing up shop and leaving the net. At the same time that is taking advantage of the ones who are donating their time and what not to help you…don’t let their candle burn at both ends and end up burnt out!

The internet is a huge huge place. It’s World Wide. I have friends in the UK, Germany, all over the U.S. and so forth. A select few I am closer too. This is my space, this is my time, just like yours and I want to enjoy it!!