Hey I am a good mother!

September 9, 2008

I find that on days the sun isn’t out shining so beautifully, I am dragging butt. It’s like my direct energy source literally comes from the sun! All I do is yawn, yawn, and well yawn!

It’s days like today that reminds me of winter coming. With staying home all the time I find winter time to be the hardest for me to deal with. I try and keep my mind busy and not think about not getting out to sit and enjoy the sunshine, or weeding the garden and flower beds.

Last night I had one hell of a migraine. This isn’t a good thing right now, its what September 9 and my nine pills for the month are dwindling down early. Not a good thing. Yes once again it was stress at home, with my daughter that brought this one on! As I previously stated for some stupid reason I thought once I got her through those not so fun 13’s, 14’s, drama of 15’s and 16’s the almost an adult 17’s, that now that she was 18, and graduated, working, that somehow things would change. I was sadly mistaken.

I wonder had I not gone to boot camp (NAVY) a week after I graduated, would I of acted like this too? Boot Camp, I wish there was a “home version” game! It teaches you a lot, especially about growing up, about being respectful (this is the most important lesson I think) and learning not to be so damn gullible!

I highly recommend to ALL parents to keep your teens away from MYSPACE!! Until they are responsible adults that are not gullible and can handle things, and use the service the way it was suppose to be, they should not EVEN allow TEENS to have one! Period. This service should be for adults only. I don’t mean the immature ones either! Parents, if your teens have one, you need to have one yourself and be on their FRIEND list so you can keep tabs on them. I stopped briefly tabbing my daughter because she had graduated from high school and that was a huge…HUGE mistake. Luckily I caught the lastest situation very very early and handled it. How did I handle it you ask?

I DELETED HER MYSPACE! I TOOK OVER THE EMAIL ADDRESS THAT I AM WORKING ON CLOSING ONCE I FINISH SENDING SOME THINGS TO OUR ISP PROVIDER FIRST!

She thinks she is going to open a new one. I at this point don’t think so! Her computer doesn’t have the Internet right now I took the wireless card away! It was one that plugs into your USB port. Its poof, gone. She has to regain some serious trust in this house right now.

I know many think I am a bitch and frankly I don’t care. I was talking to my friend Lisa last night online and she knows all the details that I won’t blog about, and she said it doesn’t make me a bitch…it makes me a good mother! So you know what, damn right that makes me A good mother and i am not going to sit here thinking otherwise!

Posted by Suzie Q | Filed Under Bulk Bin

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One Response to “Hey I am a good mother!”

Karen on September 9th, 2008 9:25 pm

I agree sweetie Myspace is very dangerous especially to young kids,I have heard so much on Tv about sexual predators etc.I mainly just use mine to keep up with old high school friends,my pixel friends etc and nothing more.I am sorry you had to go through that and hopefully things will get better.I think your a great Mother just doing whats best for your daughter.Hang in there sweetie.
Hugs
Karen

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