Had to step in and take a stand

I wish I can get back to more of the sweeter things in life instead of blogging what seems to be mostly sticky moments in my lollipop life!  I am definitely in the mist of a stick storm and for those visiting me thanks for riding it out with me.  My dad he is up and he is down.  Today I had to step in and take a stand for my son, over a travel coffee mug!  My dad came home yesterday and told my son that he wanted him to clean it and put it out in the porch area.  My husband said no!  He doesn’t want crap sitting out all the time, out there, or on the end of the cabinet with the television, if its clean put it away in the cupboard, he can get it out.  So my son put it away.  My dad was having a fit and came home today and just very rude manner that he told him where to put the cup.  So I had to step in and my dad gave me a glare so I took a stand and I said hubby said.  In all honestly I told him to stop and think about it, with spring approaching that bring bugs, ants and spiders into the porch area, did he really want to leave his cup sitting out there all night?  What is a spider crawled in it and then he drank from it and swallowed it and it was a type of spider that could make him sick.  Didn’t he think he had enough health issues?  Did he want ants in there too?  After thinking about it that way he stepped back.  Honestly.  How hard is it to get it out of the cupboard when its clean?

All these little picky picky things I just don’t have tolerance or patience for.  Not to be gross or nasty here but seriously can’t the man just flush the toilet twice after he goes?  We have one of toilets that uses under a gallon of water per flush and with DAD it just isn’t enough with ONE flush.  Oh no he just leaves it and walks away.  I am so sick and tired of either seeing, smelling or hearing about it and having to clean it up!  His habits are less than pleasing needless to say.  Also I can guarantee you against advisement of his doctors he is taking a form of laxative!  Trust me you can tell a difference!  I have looked every where in his room trying to find them too and hubby said to me maybe they are in his car!  He don’t care come hell or high water he will do what he wants.

The smarty ass comments (pardon my language), I am really at an all time low tolerance for.  Standing over my shoulder, if I happen to get a text message like from hubby today asking if I call and schedule a hair cut appointment for him, who is that from, what does it say?  DRIVES ME NUTS!!!

I already didn’t feel well today, always when I use a bleach cleaner, the day after I feel achy in my head (not typical headache or migraine) and just blah feeling.  But my counters were stained from coffee and tea and the Clorox wipes (lemon) didn’t get the stains off.

Parenting end of things, oh lets not even go there tonight!  Things with son GREAT, with daughter, well not so great!

I miss ME.  I miss just sitting enjoying my time on the computer, being able to leave my messenger all all day if I wanted and bounce back and forth and chat, I miss visiting every-ones blog daily!  I miss it.  So bear with me everyone I am just in the mist of a storm.