Fed up with meanness!!

I have to tell you, I truly love my husband and this is why when he is so mean and the TOV he uses really hurts me.  In our house TOV means tone of voice!  And how Ironic a synonym of meanness is husbandry!  The slightest little thing sets him off.  I am all understanding, been nothing but supportive during his transition over from smoking for 25 years to becoming a non smoker.  Of course I guess that’s a good thing for him but comments to me “well that’s because you were a non smoker”!  I guess I don’t understand then!

He refuses to wear a patch, chew the gum or anything to help with the nicotine withdraws.   So I guess I have to tolerate how things are now and I have to tell you I don’t like it, not one bit.  I was sick for days last week and I really think its my nerves.  

Last night I was on the couch, again.  Mr. Snoring!!  I won’t dare shake him and ask him to roll over, not now anyway.  I did the usual moving around, bounce the bed a little but he was out, so I just came out here with a couch throw blanket to sleep and froze my toes let me tell you!