Why did he do that?

June 10, 2008

So hubby has an interview tomorrow after work. This morning he called to tell me he was going to go in and talk to the Vice President of the company and let them know what he was doing. I ask myself WHY does he feel the need to tell them. He is like what if they offer to either hire him back or offer more money. I thought the whole reason to all of this is because he was not happy there. I knew once he talked to them what was going to happen and now its in limbo and my nerves just can not handle that in limbo stuff. Its all he wants to talk about now, and I just can’t talk about it anymore. I can’t. It is like I am walking back in a time zone to two years ago when we made decisions and they talked him out of it. It was what a month ago that I walked out because he accused me of belittling him instead of being supportive when I asked him what changed from two years ago when we did this and he said he had job security there. That was not a good night, I still am not fully over that and here we are approaching our 10th Wedding Anniversary this Friday and he is back to this. He is suppose to talk to the human resource lady tomorrow again why no idea, he still is going to his interview. I will NOT be the one to cancel it if he chooses not to go. I am really on my last straw here and not sure what will happen now. Why didn’t he just do the job hunting thing, interview, find a new job then quit? Why did he feel the need to to and “talk” to them? I just do NOT understand it at all and I can’t question him on it out of fear he will accuse me of not being supportive!!

Posted by Suzie Q | Filed Under Lifesavers